Alfie David John Whitehead

2008 - 2008
LocationTelford
Age1 month
Cause of DeathRare Heart Condition
Date of Birth09/07/2008
Date of Death09/08/2008
Visitors2,938 since 08/10/2008
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Alfie and Millie were born 9th July 2008, Alfie weighed 6.9lb and Millie was 6.1lb. We had been told
that there was a problem with Alfie's little heart, but it was not until he was born and a week
later did the doctors discover that little Alfie had many other problems.

Alfie was born with Half heart syndrome, two other heart conditions, no spline, his stomach was on
the wrong side and he had fluid on his lungs, not the best deck of cards to be dealt, but to look at
him he was perfect.

At Birmingham's Children Hospital, My sister asked me why? All I could say was "I don't know, but
the way I see it. Is Alfie had to see that his Sister was ok and you were ok, and now he has to go
and make everything nice up there for when we go, and when it is your time he will be the first
person you will meet"

Alfie was and is our perfect little man. He was such a calm little baby, never made any real fuss,
only a little cry when he was hungry. I make more noise at meal times!!.

Alfie made his time here a lovely one, luckly he was not hooked up to any machines, he did not have
to have any meds to help him through the final moments and when he did pass away, he did it in his
own perfect little way. His mommy put him down to sleep and got his sisters ready for Grandma's, so
while she was busy he drifted away calmly and peacefully.

Alfie was only with us and his twin Sister Milly for such a short time, but such a wonderful time.

Millie will always have a part of her brother with her, as she was named Millie Alfie May. Millie is
as perfect as her brother and doing very well. She is just as calm and loving as her brother, She
has one of the best smiles for a 3month old. I could watch her all day.

Little Alfie you may have had a weak heart, but it was strong enough to touch so many people, we are
very lucky to have known you and so lucky to have had one whole month of your lovely cuddles. I miss
you looking up from my shoulder, See you Laters mate. Love you xxx

On behalf of my sister I would like to thank all the nurses at Birmingham Children's Hospital, also
Shrewsbury and Telford hospital for taking such great care of this little family, they do a
wonderful job with little reward.


The evening Alfie fell asleep a piece of me ( his mommy) died too, you can always keep that with you
so you will always have your mommy with you my sweet baby boy.


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lot of (((((hugs)))

Guess What Mommy & Daddy?

Guess what mommy & daddy,
Heaven is great.
Just like you said,
There's not much longer to wait.

Guess what mommy & daddy,
I have a guardian angel who comes at night.
I told him I wanted to go,
But the times not right.

Guess what mommy & daddy,
My angel came this morning.
While you were still in bed,
He came with a warning.

Guess what mommy & daddy,
When I left with June.
So you could rest some more,
I knew my time was soon.

Guess what mommy & daddy,
When you were finally out of sight,
I told my angel,
The time is just right.

Guess what mommy & daddy,
When you still didn't know I was gone,
My angel put his hand in mine,
And I was no longer stiff or sick,I felt so happy & fine.

Guess what mommy & daddy,
When the hospital called,I saw you crying from above.
I saw daddy & how scared he was,
And I knew how much I was loved.

Guess what mommy & daddy,
On the way to the hospital I heard you pray,
Don't let them bring me back,
I know you don't want God to take me away.

Guess what mommy & daddy,
I saw you walk into the ER,and ask is he gone.
I saw the look on your face when the nurse said yes!
It looked like you'd never go on.

Guess what mommy & daddy,
I seen you holding me tight.
I kissed you good-bye with my love,
And tried to tell you I was alright.

Guess what mommy & daddy,
There's no more pain,
You can go on with your life,
And not feel so drained.

Guess what mommy & daddy,
I'll watch you all your days through.
And be like your guardian angel,
Just because, I LOVE YOU!!

(c) 1997 Beckie All Rights Reserved

Josyah'S Mom October 9, 2008

An Angel's Kiss

We never stop to measure
anything we might just miss
But if the wind should blow by softly
You'll feel an Angel's Kiss.

A Kiss that's sent from Heaven
A Kiss from up above
A Kiss that's very special
From someone that you love.

For in your pain and sorrow
A Kiss will help you through
This Kiss is very private
For it's meant for only you.

So when your heart is heavy
And filled with tears and pain
And no-one can console you
Remember once again.

About the one you grieve for
And so sadly miss
That gentle breeze you took for granted
Was your Angel's Kiss.

Lynne Taylor October 9, 2008

sweet dreams little angel
my love to your family
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Marie Lukes Auntie October 9, 2008

sleep tight little fellow

good night god bless yu can make friends with my NEICE NOW SHE PASSED AWAY AT 6DAYS OLD WITH A HEART CONDICTION HER BIRTHDAY IS CHRISTMASDAY GIVE HER A CUDDLE FROM ME SWEET LITTLE PEA XX NIGHT NIGHT

Karen Donaghain October 9, 2008

For Alfie's mum & dad xx

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.Special Rose I picked with care
No thorns are on it anywhere
Sweetest petals I could find
Friendship's beauty now defined


Each day when you're sad or blue
This gentle Rose I send to you
So you will know that I am near
Friendships true won't disappear


Such a "beautiful" baby. So sorry. Thinking of you and baby Alfie. Love from Liz Stuart Maxwell's mum x

Elizabeth Maxwell October 8, 2008

mummy im here xxx

Oh little one ,why did you go?
Didnt you realise how much mummy loves you so ?

You gave me such joy to know you were here.
then you left me ,alone ,filled with tears.

Mummy dont cry,I didnt go far.
im just helping the angels and playing with the stars.

Whenever you need me ,just close your eyes
and I will be with you ,right by your side.

Whenever your hurting just whisper my name,
and I will bring cuddles to help you each day.

Dont ever think that you're alone,
the love we share will last forever more.

Until that day when we meet again,
dont worry im safe with my angel family .

clair brennan 2008

Clair Brennan October 8, 2008

massage from up above

I have not turned my back on you,
so there is no need to cry.
I'm watching you from heaven,
just beyond the morning sky.
I've seen you almost fall apart,
when you could barely stand.
I asked the Lord to comfort you,
and watched him take your hand.
He told me you are in more pain,
then I could ever be.
He wiped his eyes and swallowed hard,
then gave your hand to me.
Although you may not feel my touch,
or see me by your side.
I've whispered that I love you,
while I wiped each tear you cried.
So please try not to ache for me,
we'll meet again one day,
beyond the dark and stormy sky,
a Rainbow lights the way.

Marina October 8, 2008

Death leaves a heartache
no one can heal
Love leaves a memory
no one can steal.
Love to you & your family
XXXX

Jane Collins October 8, 2008

a wonderfull little boy you should be proud. My deepest and heartfelt sympathies ambiyah's dad

Ansar Hussain October 8, 2008

oh my what a beatiful little boy. u r perfect little man, rest well in heaven sweet heart, u look down on ur loved ones at this sad time. my heart goes out to u, it really does. i have children my self and it is such a scary thought to lose one. im so sorry x x rest in peace little man x x

Kirsty Jacques October 8, 2008
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